Lately I have had that Failure As A Dad feeling....
Not in the love/fun/spirit/etc dept where I feel I am a few notches above par but in disipline, sure I had no idea that my boy was a Strong Willed Lux Model, and that I was also the same and my parents prob had a tough time with me but still its been hurting lately....
The books have helped to understand the underlying psychology and I am using them to get some stuff done, but he's also moody and he's got some other issues too (like not wanting to poop, daddy cant poop enough and he wants to hold it in), anyway I would not want him any other way, he's awesome, even when he wakes up 9 times out of 10 cryingh/moany/moody, if he see's me before mommy in the morning he slams the door to his room and throws a fit, but soon its "Daddy Can You.....??" and were off....
The daughter looks like she will be easy but I am smarter now too...
hey. its my job to grouse about my personal failings. youre supposed to remain impossibly optimistic. clearly the boy needs drugs and lots of them. i know a guy that has these psychedelic suppositories...cant go wrong.
also, regarding your next post, i had a bag of bbq potato chips for dinner last night so id say your still ahead of the curve on the cooking frontier.
we thought we had it licked but we are gonna have to try what you posted or whatever the doctor recomands.......its so wierd maybe linda posted this on her site but he was doing great (on the potty too) and he just wants to (contol) keep it in....and its back to serious again but he has notbeen doing the 7 days stands at least.....p.s. i am a tiny bit damaged from my 60's but overall I am psyched/pumped:>)
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Not in the love/fun/spirit/etc dept where I feel I am a few notches above par but in disipline, sure I had no idea that my boy was a Strong Willed Lux Model, and that I was also the same and my parents prob had a tough time with me but still its been hurting lately....
The books have helped to understand the underlying psychology and I am using them to get some stuff done, but he's also moody and he's got some other issues too (like not wanting to poop, daddy cant poop enough and he wants to hold it in), anyway I would not want him any other way, he's awesome, even when he wakes up 9 times out of 10 cryingh/moany/moody, if he see's me before mommy in the morning he slams the door to his room and throws a fit, but soon its "Daddy Can You.....??" and were off....
The daughter looks like she will be easy but I am smarter now too...
- Skinny 5-14-2007 3:37 pm
hey. its my job to grouse about my personal failings. youre supposed to remain impossibly optimistic. clearly the boy needs drugs and lots of them. i know a guy that has these psychedelic suppositories...cant go wrong.
also, regarding your next post, i had a bag of bbq potato chips for dinner last night so id say your still ahead of the curve on the cooking frontier.
- dave 5-14-2007 4:39 pm [add a comment]
we thought we had it licked but we are gonna have to try what you posted or whatever the doctor recomands.......its so wierd maybe linda posted this on her site but he was doing great (on the potty too) and he just wants to (contol) keep it in....and its back to serious again but he has notbeen doing the 7 days stands at least.....p.s. i am a tiny bit damaged from my 60's but overall I am psyched/pumped:>)
- Skinny 5-14-2007 5:05 pm [add a comment]